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He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me
A few years back, I was at a picnic when an old friend of mine came and sat down next to me. “James!” she said, and gave me a huge hug. Annabeth had been a...
How to Know If You’re Jealous
The barbecue at his friend’s house was the last straw. Melissa had been hoping to spend some quality time with her new boyfriend Ryan. She’d had a busy week,...
He Won’t Work on the Relationship
He won’t work on the relationship. He won’t do ANYTHING. He says things are fine as they are. He says there’s nothing to talk about. And what you hear is: “I...
3 Relationship Non-Negotiables
When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And...
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Be Friends with Your Man (Just Not All The Time)
Do you consider your partner a friend? You should. Sometimes. The French philosopher Jean de la Bruyere once said, “Love and friendship exclude each other.” This is a deep topic. I mean, think about what the average dating relationship is like. There are similarities...
3 Rules You Need to Know about Men
I can’t get away with saying that men aren’t complicated. Women don’t believe me. They’ve been on the receiving end of too many mystifying texts or communication blackouts. If men were simple, wouldn’t they say what they mean and cut the games? But if I said, “We guys...
Get Your Love Life Moving Faster by Setting Goals
There are two schools of thought when it comes to dating. School #1 says: “It will happen when it happens.” Don’t force things. Trust that it’s all happening perfectly. Pay attention to your intuition and surrender the rest. School #2 says: “You’ve got to MAKE it...
The Balance of Power in Your Relationship: Practicing Relationship Yoga
I was visiting with a friend recently. She’s checking out yoga for the first time. I asked her how she likes it, and her feedback was mostly positive. Except for one area. “I had no idea I was so bad at balance,” she said. “Seriously, do you know how many times I’ve...
Use Transformational Conversations to Deepen Your Relationship
Here’s something you may have noticed about guys: You can’t get a word in edgewise when you first start dating… And then you can’t get a word out of him for the next 20 years. Men get that they have to communicate to make a woman fall in love. But it’s almost as if...
Why You Should Play the Long Game
Why You Should Play the Long Game Jennifer was sick and tired of being overlooked by men … and she wasn’t shy about letting me know it. “I could follow all the dating advice out there to the letter,” she complained, “and it wouldn’t do me as much good as liposuction....
How to Outsmart He-Said-She-Said Arguments
Did you know there’s a hidden danger in trusting your own memory? Most of us think of our memory like a personal video recorder. When you remember something, it's like sitting down in the theater of your own mind and pressing play. Except, that's not how memory works....
5 Relationship Myths That Make People Miserable
Have you ever fallen prey to a widely-held misconception? Here’s a completely harmless example: shaving makes hair thicker. This old wives’ tale has been around for a long time, but there’s no truth in it.[1] Shaving can make hair look thicker. But shaving (or waxing)...
What Romance Novels Can Teach You about Real Relationships
So I’m no expert on romance novels marketed to women. (You probably could have guessed that, right?) But I have read a few because it’s related to work I do. For me, the most fascinating part has nothing to do with the budding romance that inevitably swings into full...
How to Spot Your Future Husband Faster
What are the chances your future husband is trying to meet you online? One study suggests that it could be as high as 33%.[1] (Other estimates are more conservative at 5% to 25%, so keep your eyes open in the real world, too. If he’s not online, he’s likely to be...
How Personal Branding Can Help You Find Your Match
You’re at a party. Your host introduces you to someone you haven’t met before. He’s tall and good-looking, and his entire attention is focused on you. He grins and says, “So, tell me about yourself.” You stare at him like a deer caught in the headlights. He wants me...
This Is What Guys Really Care About
What does your guy value more than passion? Do you know? The answer may surprise you. Passion is pretty powerful. Men and women alike feel drawn to it. All of us want a life filled with passionate moments. But there are things that matter to us even more than passion....
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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