Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?
Naleda was a vibrant 22-year-old who oozed confidence. She made direct eye contact and shook my hand firmly. As she settled into a chair, I asked her why...
Why Guys Break Up Instead of Working on the Relationship
This is a story you might have heard before. A man meets a woman… And he falls hard. He’s never met anyone like her before. They have so much fun together....
He Won’t Talk About Marriage
“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy...
The Secret Need That Drives Men
Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Why Success in Your Own Life Doesn’t Always Translate to Success with Men
If you’re attractive, gracious, and wise in the ways of the heart, then you must be a great catch. And that means men should be attracted to you instantly. Right? But instead you’re getting hardly any messages on your online dating profile, while other women who...
Meet Better Men by Dialing into the “Good Man Channel”
“I would like to be in a relationship, but there’s one thing holding me back,” Stacey said. “What’s that?” “Men. I don’t trust them. They’re users. They’ve destroyed the lives of so many good women I know. Like, I’m glad my mother met my father, or I wouldn’t be...
Which is Better for Your Love Life: Being Cautious or Optimistic?
Scarlett and Aaron were going to have an amazing life together. She knew it in her bones. She’d never had a relationship this good. And she knew—even if Aaron didn’t—that he’d never had it this good, either. The problem was that he was pretending. Pretending he wasn’t...
3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win
“He has to win at everything!” Damona was exasperated. “We can’t even go for a game of mini golf without his ‘gotta-win’ hat going on. It’s not even fun anymore. We go for a hike, he’s gotta pass everyone else on the trail. I keep telling him it’s not a race to the...
Free Your Man from Anti-Commitment Peer Pressure
Lewis Howes had it all. A seven-figure business. A bestselling book for which he was about to go on tour. An athletic career that had catapulted him all the way to the pros. So, the first thing he did? Break up with his long-term girlfriend. Why tie himself down? A...
3 Criteria to Spot an Emotionally Healthy Man
“I want to find me a mature man. A guy who’s responsible, who treats me right, who doesn’t come with a whole lotta baggage I’m supposed to fix for him. Where is he, James? Can you find me this man?” Taraji was on fire. She leaned forward to emphasize her words. There...
3 Qualities of Great #RelationshipGoals
Everyone has #RelationshipGoals. A tropical holiday with a gorgeous guy. A white wedding planned down to the tiniest details. A house full of kids, laughter, and at least one dog. What are yours? Relationship goals are more than just a fun hashtag. They’re life or...
Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?
You’ve been dating for a while. He’s a good guy. A really good guy. He’s nice, your parents like him, he’s got a solid career, and he picks up after himself. What do you have to complain about? And yet… The thought of walking down the aisle with him fills your heart...
The Mindset Makeover for Confidence
This article is about building your social confidence and optimism. So you might find this next sentence a bit strange. It’s common for Buddhist monks to meditate on death. Specifically, their own death. Why would they do that? Well, Buddhists seek enlightenment, a...
Social Skills Boot Camp
I like confident people. Especially when the source of their confidence is good social skills (rather than good looks, wealth, or accomplishments). Because, here’s the thing about a person who is socially adept… They can: make you feel good about yourself, help you...
Flirting Boot Camp
Flirting is essential to building AND maintaining romantic relationships. Whether you’ve been too self-conscious to start, or you just want to expand your comfort with flirting, this article will help. We’re going to rapidly review the basics…the “active ingredients”...
How to Bring Out the Best in People
Do you instinctively know things about people the moment you meet them? Most people do. Because we pick up on nonverbal signals. I recently walked into a room of 13 people and immediately sensed something different about one of them. She was their leader. It was a...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.