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Is He a Giver or a Taker? Here’s How to Find Out
Whether you’ve just met a man you really like… Or you’re wondering whether to commit… There’s one question you must ask yourself: Is this man generous with...
Be Aware of These Online Dating Trends
Now that dating is irrevocably intertwined with technology, it’s changing so fast that it’s hard to keep up. Hop on the latest dating app, and it can seem...
The Future of Dating
Dating is changing so fast. It wasn’t all that long ago that you had to use a dial-up modem on a desktop computer to meet someone online. Dating sites were...
Should You Settle for Being Friends?
You really like this guy… But, for whatever reason, there’s no possibility of it ever becoming more. Maybe he has a girlfriend. Maybe he’s an off limits...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution
Think of the last guy who really flaked on you. What did he do? Didn’t text/call you back. Disappeared on you. Didn’t show up for a date. These days, it’s common for someone to vanish off the face of the earth, whether it’s ghosting (in which he disappears for good)...
How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup
It’s tough when women come into my office suffering from a recently-ended relationship. They want to get over it, they want to move on and meet someone new, but the pain of loss keeps tripping them up. I admire these women greatly. They’ve gone through a terrible...
Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor
Brené Brown is everywhere. If you didn’t catch her TED talk or her appearance on Oprah’s SuperSoul conversations, you might have seen her recent Netflix documentary “The Call to Courage.” Even though she’s a shame and vulnerability researcher (which wouldn’t seem to...
The Power of a 6-Second Kiss
New couples make out… Old couples give each other a peck on the cheek. The longer you’re together, the more habitual your kissing becomes. You don’t need to make out for hours when you’ve been sleeping in the same bed for years. You take each other’s physical presence...
Why Loss Hurts So Much (Even If You Never Liked Him in the First Place)
Kelly didn’t even like Jonah. And yet here she was, glancing down at her phone every few minutes, listening to breakup songs. She met him on Tinder. He seemed nice enough. They went out a handful of times. Enough to make her think they were dating, or at least moving...
How Facebook Knows Who You’re Dating— And Why That Matters to All of Us
Imagine two couples. The first couple, Jack and Jill, have a gazillion friends in common. They met at a party thrown by mutual friends, and it was love at first sight. They’ve stayed with the same social circle, so all of Jack’s friends know Jill’s friends, and vice...
3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips
You’re on a first date, and you really want to make it to a second date. Should you: (a) Talk about him, or (b) talk about yourself?(a) Ask lots of questions, or (b) not ask questions?(a) Play it cool, or (b) get excited? I’ll give you a clue. The answer is either all...
How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?
When I ran into my friend Kalia the other day, I was amazed at how relaxed and happy she looked. Her hair was styled in the same light brown bob as always, and she was casually dressed in jeans and a t-shirt, but she looked like she’d stepped straight off the plane...
Crazy Hacks to Boost Your Online Dating Success
You’re picking an online dating profile picture. Which picture do you choose? The one of you dressed up and smiling at the camera.The one of you pouting at the camera in a cleavage-baring top.The one of you biting into an enormous grilled cheese sandwich. Hold that...
How Dating Has Changed in the 21st Century
Every year for the past eight years, online dating giant Match.com has surveyed singles across America. They wanted to know what makes a great first date, whether hookups ever lead to a committed relationship, and whether old-fashioned gender expectations still hold...
Why Older Guys are Messaging You Online (And How to Meet More Guys Your Own Age!)
Denise had a problem. She’d been doing fairly well on Match.com. She hadn’t met anyone she really liked yet, but she’d gone out on a few decent dates. Mostly with guys in their 40s, which she didn’t mind, as she was about to turn 40 herself. The day after her...
3 Communication Secrets to Boost Conversation Quality
Bethany will never forget the last meal out she had with the man she thought she was going to marry. They’d gone to their favorite Mexican restaurant, the scene of so many happy times. They ate in silence. She asked him how work was. He grunted. She asked him if he...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.