Breakup On the Horizon? Do This Next.

Breakups often feel like they come out of nowhere—an argument explodes, a partner withdraws, or you both just “grow apart.” But what if the real trigger is something deeper than just surface-level disagreements? Attachment issues—anxious clinging, avoidant shutdown,...

Cheating Shattered Your Relationship. Now what?

Infidelity can feel like your whole world has been ripped apart. Whether you cheated or you’re the one who got betrayed (or you suspect it’s happening), the emotional fallout is intense—rage, shock, guilt, heartbreak. But in the heat of the moment, there’s one reality...

Getting Back Together After a Rough Patch

Carol and her guy had been going through a rough patch. It wasn’t anything new. It was the same old problems they’d always struggled with. “I just don’t think we can make it work,” she told me. “We’ve tried so many times. I’m discouraged. He’s discouraged.” She...

Will You Get Back Together? Ways to Tell

I’m often asked whether it is possible for love to be rekindled. If a man lost interest, can he fall for you all over again? I’m happy to reassure my clients that yes, it’s possible! Couples get back together all the time. A YouGov poll of 22,000 Americans found that...

Mistakes That Push Your Ex Further Away

Yes, you’ve broken up, but is a relationship ever REALLY over? You can toss out his sweatshirt, he can throw away the cards you gave him, but the memories you made together are not so easy to get rid of. He’ll never be able to see you as “just another woman.” In part...

He Used to Love Me & Now He Doesn’t

You don’t understand why. It was going so well. You were there for him during tough times. He said he’d protect you and keep you safe. He was part of your life, and you were part of his. Now he’s saying he doesn’t feel the same way anymore? How can love turn off just...